Thursday, April 18, 2013

Reiner 8

Do Your values shape your experience or your experience shape your values?
Alex Reiner
Entry 8 - 3/4


While home over Spring Break I got to grab coffee and catch up with one of my best friends from high school.  Over coffee we were reminiscing over how "far" we have come now that we're moving on with our post-grad lives, me working for CNU as a professional in Student Affairs and her in Bosnia on a Fulbright Scholarship.  My friend is particularly existential and when we get together to talk about life, our conversations become particularly existential as well.  So while we were talking the 'which came first?' argument- the experience or the values that shaped that experience, we found it hard to figure out what shaped who we were sitting there before each other.  We were talking about it in context of all the lessons we've learned since freshman year of high school and how they have come together as a collection of experiences.  We came to the conclusion that it would never be possible to pinpoint the exact moments throughout our lives that make us who were are today, but that it was a combination of our values that determine how we approach situations and experiences, and it is those experiences that change our lives every day.

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